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| YOU’RE ALREADY MARRIED AND… |
…all that’s left of your wedding day is a photo album and a preserved dress. It all passed so quickly, even the honeymoon, and the reality of clothes left lying around and morning breath and a host of other hidden flaws have emerged over the years, way more real than you ever imagined.
Were you ready for this?
What is it that will keep you together “until death do us part?”
Are you prepared to stay married forever?
Stay Married Forever with Marriage Coach Dr. Joey!
| WHY MARRIAGES END BEFORE FOREVER |
For nearly three decades, I’ve coached couples as they prepared to be married forever. And I’ve worked with couples who’ve been married for a while and all of a sudden, being married forever is just too long to endure, but before they called it quits, they called me.
I’ve learned at least three things over the years:
- Every couple benefits from Marriage Coaching before they say, “I do.”
- Every couple benefits from Marriage Coaching before they say, “I don’t.”
- Every couple in between “I do” and “I don’t” benefits from Marriage Coaching, too.
Now why is that?
Well, there are lots of reasons, but for me they all crystallized in a conversation I had at the fitness center (of all places) with an attorney friend of mine.
“The American Bar Association tells us,” he said, “to plan on at least 60% of all marriages ending in divorce.”
I asked, “Did they say why?”
His answer is worth remembering: “Because most couples aren’t prepared for marriage and once their marriage is over, they repeat the same mistakes in their next marriage.”
You’ve heard insanity defined as doing the same thing over and over while expecting different results, haven’t you?
Marriage insanity is rampant today according to the ABA, or at least my friend’s interpretation of their findings.
And that’s why I’m on a mission—to prepare couples for marriage success by coaching them to discover the C.O.R.E. of their marriage relationship.
| HOW YOU CAN STAY MARRIED FOREVER |
How do you discover the C.O.R.E. of your marriage relationship?
Here’s how with me as your Marriage Coach:
C—Conflict Management
It’s not “if” but “when” you disagree, fight, argue, discuss, or whatever word you choose for conflict. The “if” comes into play on the field of resolving the conflict. Some couples never do and keep those old, moldy, stinky, rotting arguments in their spirits and pretty soon their relationship is a garbage pile of heaped up, smelly unresolved conflict.
As your Marriage Coach, I use a Conflict Management Inventory (CMI) to help you discover your Conflict Management Style, that of your partner, and how to consistently and accurately create resolution.
O—Opposites Attract
Not married yet? If you think something she or he does irritates you now, just wait until she or he promises “I do!” Boy will they!
Already married? Bet you can make a list of his or her irritating traits.
Some of that is because opposites really do attract. You’d get bored pretty quickly if you married someone exactly like you, wouldn’t you?
As your Marriage Coach, I use the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator® to help you discover your personality traits and preferences and those of your spouse. I coach you in greater self-awareness and understanding of your spouse so that you can anticipate and even appreciate the opposites. As these opposites create friction, you can reduce the heat and turn up the light!
R—Relevant Issues
Even though I’ve been doing this for 25 years, I’m constantly amazed by how couples stub their marital toes on molehills and how quickly they swell up into mountains.
When to have children and how to discipline them? Who’ll pay the bills? Where to spend the holidays?
The list goes on and on and it seems like each year of marriage brings another issue.
As your Marriage Coach, I coach you to make a list of issues you want to talk about, and then facilitate your discussion to consensus. When you’re through with this part, you’ll understand your common values which bring meaning and purpose to your marriage relationship.
E—Express Yourself
Saying what you mean and meaning what you say isn’t easy in a marriage. Oh sure, you know what you’re trying to say or intended to say, but how to say it in a way that your spouse understands—now that’s the tricky part!
But it can be done! Marital Communication is a skill that can be learned. And I promise—if you want to learn it, I can teach you.
As your Marriage Coach, I coach you in developing your natural communication skills (based on your Conflict Management Style and Myers-Briggs Personality type) so that you say what you mean and mean what you say in a way that your spouse understands.
Stay Married Forever with Marriage Coach Dr. Joey!
| How I Can Coach You to Stay Married Forever |
First, you need to know that being your Marriage Coach is a passion of mine. I’m committed to coaching couples all around the world to being married forever in a satisfying and pleasing relationship that’s grounded in their common values. Your marriage is at best happy and joyful, spiritual and romantic.
Second, you need to know that I already have a full schedule as a Life Coach working with individuals on personal and professional matters, coaching them to listen to life and make a life, not just a living. Add to that my speaking and writing schedule and I really don’t need something else to do. But Marriage Coaching is something I believe God’s Spirit is gently nudging me to do.
Third, I hate to tell you this, but facts are facts—The odds are against you and your spouse Staying Married Forever. You can just sit there and do nothing and watch your marriage dissolve before your very eyes.
Or, you can get up and do something about it. Sign up right now for Marriage Coaching with me. I’ve coached hundreds of couples to Stay Married Forever. You can Stay Married Forever, too. How do you sign up?
| HERE’S HOW TO SIGN UP TO STAY MARRIED FOREVER: |
- You click here to sign up to do Couple Coaching with me so you can Stay Married Forever. You’ll go to our super-secure, easy-to-use online store. I know that your $995 investment in your marriage for these five 1/2 hour sessions is a WHOLE LOT LESS than attorney fees, child support, alimony, and having to sell your home, car, truck, and other assets if you divorce, but I told you—I’m doing this because I’m committed to and passionate about you Staying Married Forever!
- Someone will contact you to set up our schedule for the five 1/2 hour coaching sessions. All coaching is done by phone. You and your spouse can be in two different cities or apartments or in the same room if you prefer.
- We snail mail you the Conflict Management Inventory (CMI) and MBTI® which you return to our office. Email support is available between coaching sessions.
- Scheduling is done on a first-come, first-served basis. If you wait until the last minute to sign up and want to finish coaching before your ceremony, remember that my schedule is already full. I’ll be happy to schedule you as soon as I can. So signing up right now is the best way to get the time you want.
If you’re already married and in a real state of distress, I’ll get to you as soon as I can, but again, my schedule is already full so sign up right now.
| WILL YOU STAY MARRIED FOREVER? |
So what do you choose for your marriage: Married forever?
Or, repeating your past mistakes?
Stay Married Forever starting right now!
I really look forward to coaching you,
Dr. Joey Faucette
Marriage Coach
PS: I wish I could tell you I have all the time in the world available in my schedule, but I don’t. It books quickly. So please sign up right now!
PSS: As with all of the Stay Married Forever resources, if you’re not 100% satisfied, we refund your investment. No questions asked! No fine print wiggle room! We treat you just like you want to be treated by your spouse!
PSSS: Once the flowers are thrown out and the cake is gone and the music is over, what will you have to show for your money? One day that was a good time? You’ll get so much more with me, Dr. Joey as your Marriage Coach. What’s one day compared with the rest of your life together as husband and wife?
       
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